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Hyperdust
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Renee
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Location: Chicago, Illinois
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This article has me thinking about a conversation a few weeks back regarding funeral/burial plans for atheists.
Has anyone here begun planning a service for when they die?
Do those plans:
-Respect wishes of religious loved ones left behind and allow them a religious service.
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-Request no religious service but rather a gathering for celebration of life.
And now onto your corpse:
-Burial service (body in ground)
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-Cremation service
Just wondering what everyone is planning.
*I am not trying to be a Debbie Downer, just curious  |
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MockingGods
Philosophical Prodigy



Joined: Nov 14, 2002
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This is my preferred method of dealing with what's left of my dead flesh. It takes up little to no useless space (as in a burial) and is usually the most cost affective method. I care little how people choose to memorialize my existence after I die, especially when it comes to any sort of sacred rite.
I'm sure this attitude sucks for the bastards that have made an industry out of peoples sorrow. I've had to deal with these people twice in the past several years, and honestly, I hold a lower opinion of them then used car salesmen. |
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offero
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Joined: Jan 16, 2008
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Sun Oct 12, 2008 11:56 pm |
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I would certainly do this. Where can we make this legally binding? |
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Robocoastie
The Learned


Joined: Nov 30, 2004
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Tue Oct 14, 2008 9:26 am |
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This is my preferred method of dealing with what's left of my dead flesh. It takes up little to no useless space (as in a burial) and is usually the most cost affective method. I care little how people choose to memorialize my existence after I die, especially when it comes to any sort of sacred rite.
I'm sure this attitude sucks for the bastards that have made an industry out of peoples sorrow. I've had to deal with these people twice in the past several years, and honestly, I hold a lower opinion of them then used car salesmen. |
Actually I've seen cremation servics cost twice as much or more than standard burial. The reason? - The funeral companies run the crematorium so they ain't about to undercut their biz. Funeral and cemetary "services" are a huge monopoly scam. When I had to bury my brother 10 years ago we learned that every funeral parlor in the Oklahoma City area were all owned by the same company and the prices were fixed. |
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MockingGods
Philosophical Prodigy



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Tue Oct 14, 2008 11:15 am |
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This is my preferred method of dealing with what's left of my dead flesh. It takes up little to no useless space (as in a burial) and is usually the most cost affective method. I care little how people choose to memorialize my existence after I die, especially when it comes to any sort of sacred rite.
I'm sure this attitude sucks for the bastards that have made an industry out of peoples sorrow. I've had to deal with these people twice in the past several years, and honestly, I hold a lower opinion of them then used car salesmen. |
Actually I've seen cremation servics cost twice as much or more than standard burial. The reason? - The funeral companies run the crematorium so they ain't about to undercut their biz. Funeral and cemetary "services" are a huge monopoly scam. When I had to bury my brother 10 years ago we learned that every funeral parlor in the Oklahoma City area were all owned by the same company and the prices were fixed. |
Hmmm... I didn't know that; thanks for the info. One of the things I found interesting when cremating both my aunt and uncle is they "require" you to purchase a coffin. They don't make you purchase one of the very expensive models, but you must at least buy a box, usually cardboard for the cheapest. As far as I can see, there's no reason (other then making them another 100 bucks or more) for the body to be in a box when it's cremated. But still, what bothers me the most about the entire "industry" ( I use that term lightly) is how they play off peoples sorrow to make money; I just can't abide by that.
When I make my living trust/will, I'll probably request my interment to be what ever is the most cost/resource effective. |
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Cygnus
Graduate Thinker


Joined: Mar 26, 2008
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Burial at sea, anyone? |
_________________ "Buddha says: "Do not flatter thy benefactor!" Let one repeat this saying in a Christian church: it immediately purifies the air of all Christianity."
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Renee
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Tue Oct 14, 2008 10:39 pm |
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My living will states my wishes regarding disposal/funeral:
-Small gathering of friends for life celebration
-Absolutely no religious ceremony
-Cremation with scattering---->
I am trying to find a farmer to till me into the soil of a corn field...not many people willing to do that ! |
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MockingGods
Philosophical Prodigy



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Feed the fish? |
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zacherystaylor
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Bury me in the back yard don't give money to anyone
Unless I can figure out how to take it with me  |
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JOBAfunky
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You know a lot of funeral stuff you can actually do yourself along with getting some of your own land zoned for corpse burial. Personally I want to be put into a rough hewn pine box and buried out in nature on family land or put whole body into a crypt. Thus giving me the best chance for coming back as a zombie. Heck I still might be able to give a future family member a scare or 2 as a mundane corpse in the family mausoleum. Oh and under no circumstance do I want my body to go through any of that nasty corpse post processing. |
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baddogma
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Joined: Feb 02, 2006
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Fri Nov 14, 2008 7:05 am |
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| Renee wrote: |
This article has me thinking about a conversation a few weeks back regarding funeral/burial plans for atheists.
Has anyone here begun planning a service for when they die?
Do those plans:
-Respect wishes of religious loved ones left behind and allow them a religious service.
OR
-Request no religious service but rather a gathering for celebration of life.
And now onto your corpse:
-Burial service (body in ground)
OR
-Cremation service
Just wondering what everyone is planning.
*I am not trying to be a Debbie Downer, just curious  |
ReNEEE!xoxox
I'm going to be a huge paper weight. (naked in resin flipping the bird.)
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SvZurich
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Meh, likely cremated. |
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